Myrtie Ceara5 days agoI need some advice! So, I (23F) and my ex (21M) have been broken up for a while, but we're still friends since we have a lot of mutual friends and no bad blood. We've both agreed to keep boundaries and stay friends. A couple of months ago, I was really sure he was the one I wanted to be with, but now I'm feeling confused and keep either ghosting him or texting him in a very dry way. The breakup happened because I was going through a lot at the time, and I didn't feel like it was fair to drag him down with me. Now, I'm not sure if it's attachment or something else. He also lives in another city for university, which is something I can't ignore because I'm not sure I could handle a long-distance relationship. I just don’t think it's something I could do. I'm really confused, and I sometimes feel guilty when I ghost him. He’s also expressed interest in getting back together and said he would wait for me, but I don’t want him to do that because it doesn’t feel fair to him. I’m not sure what I’m doing or how to navigate this. I could really use some help! rewrite the messages that I will send and give answers also. 1265