Dmitry Faddey4 days agoI'm feeling really upset with my boyfriend (30M) right now. We've been together for nine months, and things have been tough lately. My dad (54M) has been struggling with the effects of a stroke, and his condition has worsened recently. I shared all of this with my boyfriend, and he initially believed me. However, we've had some issues in our relationship, especially after I had to stay with my dad as his primary caregiver during the holidays. My boyfriend lives six hours away, and he told me he needed a break, so we didn't spend the holidays together. After not talking for six days, I finally reached out to him to update him on my dad's condition. To my surprise, he expressed doubt about my story and seemed to think I was lying about taking care of my dad. He even said he wouldn’t call me anymore and would only communicate via text, and even then, he was distant because he felt hurt that I couldn't be with him during the holidays. Today, after I updated him again about my dad, he revealed that he had gone behind my back and called a friend of his who is a doctor in my city to verify whether my dad had actually been admitted to the hospital. I was absolutely disgusted. It feels like a complete betrayal of trust, especially since I confided in him during such a difficult time. It also feels like he invaded my dad's privacy. I'm not sure what to do next or how to move forward from this situation. Any advice would really help.1255
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